Don't compare yourself to others
Don't compare yourself to others who call themselves Christians.
Compare yourself to Scripture.
In this present time, the term 'Christian' has become more of a classification rather than a character. Being a follower of Christ in this modern society has truly become a tough road to tackle. But with the strength coming from God, all of the hurdles in life can be easily overcome.
The world might have set a standard of Christianity, but always remember to test everything you hear with the word of God. The Bible is our instruction manual on how to live our life here on earth, so we must mold ourselves with God's words and and not with what others tells us.